We had an issue with our high school friend group where one friend was not vaccinated and another asked around thanksgiving to only hang out with vaccinated people. There was a blowup by unvaccinated friend.

Unvaccinated friend S is getting married in July and I wasn’t invited probably because I didn’t privately reach out to my unvaccinated friend about the texts. My best friend/bridesmaid was invited and she’ll bring up the wedding occasionally. Like saying how expensive it and and they registered for nothing under $100 ect. Today she bought it up again in text so I was like “I actually need to let S and F know we set a wedding date. I feel like S is mad at me because of the unvaccinated group text”(FYI F is another friend and S’s best friend).

I’ve always wanted to ask my best friend if he’s upset I never reached out separately about the text I just don’t want to put her on the spot. I’m now feeling weird that I even said anything.