Unhappy

If you are unhappy in your marriage, what would you do? We have no prenup so I wouldn’t get anything, and I don’t make as much money and have literally nothing saved. And the worst part, I would have to move back in with my toxic parents 😭

we have been married it’ll be 9 years in August. And idk who I am anymore. He knows I’m unhappy but says I should go out with friends and whatnot🤷‍♀️. Kids are involved a 14 yr old and 6 year old. I just don’t like how life turned out . I had a whole different perspective of what I wanted life to be like.