Fingers up your bum?

Question

Soooo twice I've been with guys that have stuck the finger in my ass without consent.
 1st guy was ok cause we had been experimenting already and knew each other well.. 
However the 2nd guy was just a one nighter and it just shocked me no warnings at all and tried to jam more than one inside my ass.
Is it like a normal thing nowadays or what? Also how do u like it? For me I like it but not with any ol guy, and I'd like a little warning before hand.

Answer

At least you've not had a guy ask you to put a finger in his ass! 😐

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I think if you're going to do it without talking about it first, it should be common courtesy to at least kind of play around the outside of the hole and gauge the reaction before entering 😂 I think the problem in general is people think 'this one boy (or girl) liked this move, all the boys (or girls) must like this!' when really were all individuals with unique sexual preferences.

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I think it can happen in the heat of the moment and he may not realise you didn't like it. You need to be vocal, especially with one night stands... 
As soon as his hand went there you should have said no, I don't like that. 
Yep, he probably should have mentioned it before doing it, but he probably thought when his hands where making there way there you would say if you didn't feel comfortable.

Fingers up your bum?

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