I think my boyfriend just doesn’t know how hard being a new mom is. Taking care of my child isn’t hard but I’m dealing with a lot of emotions and the things he says some times really makes it worse. For example I have my baby on a feeding schedule he eats every two hours cuz that’s just when he gets hungry and I don’t fall asleep until about 1am and me and baby wake up at about 9(waking up every two hours ofc and changing diapers during this time) but my bf told me to stop being lazy and that I should wake up earlier to take advantage of all hours of the day lol at first I thought he was right and tried my best to do that but sometimes I just want to sit down and relax and after he made that comment I feel bad for just relaxing he told me that his last gf had a job as nurse and was “fine af” and since I have no job rn that I should take care of the house and him but he also wants me to meditate, take vitamins, find a way to make money from home and all types of stuff. I get that he wants to be a power forward couple and be great and feel great but it’s not making me feel great at all. Am I lazy? I do take care of the house and the baby and cook almost 3 meals a day after that I want to do nothing else but now I’m feeling like what I do isn’t working enough..literally depressed and now I wrong want to get out of bed at all because some of the things he said had really messed me up mentally