Y’all notice how when people mention the topic of moms no one realizes how hard it is.

I mean yes it’s easy and give yourself praise for it but we arnt valued in others eyes.

We fucking matter. It’s so hard to see that becoming important to someone who’s important to you is hard. Knowing that someone can just devalue you, after your care is crazy.

I understand teen angst and not being okay with your parents at an older age, but as an infant would be too soon.

If only people’s actually knew family and how it makes a mom and the value of its entirety.

I’d hate for my kid to devalue me, I care so strongly but I have to respect how it doesn’t matter to my kid.

How I don’t matter and probably won’t.