Good morning a little backstory I am a mother to two wonderful children and been married almost nine years. Six years ago I wanted out of my marriage but my husband convinced me he could change and I was a stay at home mom dependent on him. I also still very much was in love with my husband. Six years later I’m back to wanting a divorce. My husband has emotionally and mentally abused me. Convinced me divorce isn’t an option because he doesn’t want it. He’s also told me he can change again but in my hearts of hearts feel a zebra can’t change its stripes. I work, have been working back in my career field for five years but he makes more than double what I do in a month and he’s told me I can’t do it on my own without him. Have any other mamas out here been doing it solely on their own? Any tips or tricks you can share?