Ttc without support

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I hear all the time people talking about people coming up to them and saying, “when are you going to have a baby? “ or “don’t wait forever” and all these things but what about when it’s your family and they don’t talk about fertility, about you having babies or about our struggle. They don’t understand the battle and it’s on my husbands side so they think I’m the only one that it bothers that we aren’t getting pregnant. My husband is so down on himself because as he says “it shouldn’t be this hard” he has low motility/morphology and count. We have been Ttc for 5 years 3IUI’s and have been told <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">ivf</a> is our next option. I’m 25 and my husband is 28. It bothers my husband so badly that we can’t get pregnant and his family don’t even notice, when we get together with his family all we hear about is his brother and their kids. After they leave he gets so upset about his brother always being better than him at everything. (They just flaunt all of there perfections and don’t talk about the bad things in life). We just want them to want to talk about it . And for the record when we do his dad tells us to stop talking about it because he doesn’t need to hear that stuff. 😩🤷🏼‍♀️