You really can't give relationship advice to anyone now, every relationship is different and you don't know the entire story or what happen unless they say so! That's when that judgemental stuff kick in...I can't do anything but leave it alone because it's not my place. That's like me telling what happened in my relationship and someone else saying you stupid for letting him back in because he'll probly do the same thing again! (If it happened to them that's the first thing that comes out of their mouth) everyone doesn't date the same person and this thing about all men and women are the same is not true! You chose to fate the same person or that's what you attract and you found it appealing and come to find out they were the same as your last so you categorized them in that group based on your opinion and experience. No one man or woman is the same. It's what you attract or are drawn to! Just saying!!!