Feeling tricked

Me and my eldests father broke up 6 year ago. During this time we had nasty court proceedings and eventually he got to see her in a contact centre. After a view visits he made his feelings known and we rekindled (Feb 2023). The sex was just how it always was.. Amazing. However he gave me oral which never used to happen and I was mind blown.

This didn't last long however.. A few weeks tops. All whilst I'm giving him oral as usual. I keep telling him outright that I miss it and he claims he's just gotten too carried away everytime.. Which I'm not buying at all.

We had a rather lengthy argument last month and just when I made it clear I didn't want this anymore he suddenly wanted to give me oral. I pushed away as I felt it was just a manipulation tactic.

Our communication has dwindled, sex life too and I'm left feeling unsatisfied in every aspect of the relationship. I've voiced this to him but he insists on acting like nothings wrong. I'm starting to view him as a selfish lover.

Am I wrong?