Revenge body. Why do women transform when they get cheated on?

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My sister-in-law got cheated on, she started going to the gym, lost a TON of weight and started taking care of herself. Then when she convinced him to come back she put on the weight again. Another woman I know, also got cheated on, she begged him to stay but he left her for the other woman and now she's going bananas. She lost 50 pounds, got a boob job, hair implants, fillers, and is now prepping for a lipo and bbl. I could go on and on... Have you heard of that happening? Why can't women just try and be as beautiful for themselves. Why does it take getting cheated on for them to invest in themselves? EDIT: @UNICORNSSTILL EXIST I totally get what your saying, but with my SIL why would she stop taking care of herself again once she got him back? Isn't this a toxic mentality, that you should only care for yourself to have a man?

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Everybody wants to feel more confident after being cheated on. It’s not rocket science. Their brain says you weren’t enough so make yourself better for next time.

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Not your body, not your problem.

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Bettering yourself if the best form of revenge. That and exercise releases endorphins and has been proven to help with mental health. So it could also be a result of “physical” therapy. And what the other comment said, cheating often creates the feeling of being second best, so why would you not want to be your best?  it doesn’t really matter what you think. If getting in shape and changing their appearance in a way that makes them happy is what they want to do, let them.

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Tell me youve never been cheated on without telling me..... Its a HUGE hit to a girl or woman's self confidence when they are cheated on. The only thing going through their heads are "Whats wrong with me? Why wasnt I enough? She looks like _____, and I dont. I must be ugly/unattractive". Going to the gtm, losing weight, changing habits, actively trying to be healthier is her just doing the work that she needs to do for HERSELF to make herself feel better and build her confidence back up. Theres absolutely nothing wrong with it and women should he cheered for working on themselves to drag themselves out of mental dark places that are caused by things like being cheated on.

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Sometimes guys don’t want the women to get boob jobs or to wear make up. Or go to the gym. A lot of men don’t want their women to continue those things because they are already taken and “don’t need to look good for anyone but them” also they might get depressed during the relationship and CANT take care of themselves. And in relationships you get more comfortable to be yourself. So you don’t need to do those things. Also time. Maybe in a relationship they find it hard to find time to go to the gym and shit. 
It doesn’t matter tho. Worry about yourself and just be happy for others.

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It’s about confidence. Or not feeling like enough or desired. Everyone is different. Some do it to get back out in the dating scene. 
“You can’t make someone else happy unless you’re happy with themselves”

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Personally after I was cheated on I felt like I wasn’t enough and I started to work on myself, not for the person that cheated on me but myself I think we do lose weight with the stress and the heart ache and the odd beauty treatment or hairdresser visit to reinvent ourselves is just a natural response to pick you again out of the depression of how you feel about yourself yes getting major surgery like boob or butt jobs kinda extreme but if it gives her more confidence about herself I see no harm.
Being cheated on isn’t nice and maybe we do compare ourselves with the person they cheated on us with or maybe them doing that to you and cheating on the first place gives you a complex about your flaws and maybe that’s why they cheated?’ So you change these things they come back and then because the relationship is unhealthy you let your self go again due to the depression and hurt that you can’t forgive them.

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Why do you even care tho? Instead of being judgemental try having some compassion.

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To make their Ex see what they lost!

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Honestly it has nothing to do with that person 9 times out of ten that person They cheat on you with half the time is not a better women then what they have like etc

Revenge body. Why do women transform when they get cheated on?

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