Immaturity

It's immature of me but whenever me and my husband fight I am ALWAYS the first fucking one to give in and wanna talk even if I'm wrong. We haven't spoke in 2 days and I just don't wanna give in cause I'm sick and tired of the one making the effort to try and fix things first. I realize this is extreamly immature but what do you ladies do??? Do you give in first? Does it bother you? I was the one posting before how my husband hugged a huge whore who hates me. But yeah, we still aren't speaking. UGH. Should I give in as usual??