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Girl I'm in the same boat. I always give in and it drives me insane. But I do think you might have to cut him some slack on this one. It's not like she hugged him and then he grabbed her boobs. It would have been ridiculously awkward for him to refuse to hug her. Let her have her little moment with the hug, you've got the man. And by continuing to fight, you're letting her win and she's not even there!
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It's immature of me but whenever me and my husband fight I am ALWAYS the first fucking one to give in and wanna talk even if I'm wrong. We haven't spoke in 2 days and I just don't wanna give in cause I'm sick and tired of the one making the effort to try and fix things first. I realize this is extreamly immature but what do you ladies do??? Do you give in first? Does it bother you? I was the one posting before how my husband hugged a huge whore who hates me. But yeah, we still aren't speaking. UGH. Should I give in as usual??
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How can you go 2 days without speaking? It sounds like you both could benefit from a communications course for married couples. Hubs and I rarely argue but when we do we resolve it within an hour or so. But we both have taken several communications courses through our education programs so we have very effective communication skills. They go over the techniques in marriage counseling so I would consider that.
I used to always be the first to give in. It didn't bother me so much because he's the type of person to need his space when he's angry but I'm not, I want to talk right away. Everyone is different when they're angry. I think most men like to be left alone for awhile when they're mad. We changed over the years though and now and both of us get over things super fast
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