TTC prison

Please don't judge me...Me and my husband have been trying to have a baby for 5 years and finally saved up enough money for IVF and my transfers is supposed to be next week. That all kind of got crapped on when something from my past came back to haunt me. I'm not going into detail but I had to go to court. Was facing some charges and I'm taking a plea deal and my sentence will go from 5 years to 2 years. I did not tell my husband because I'm not the person anymore and I know is should have. He has decided to stay with me and he wants to cancel this transfer because I'm going to prison for 2 years but with my clock ticking I don't want to wait until I get out. I made mistakes back then. I was young and dumb and didn't expect it to come back and bite me. I've changed as a person. My husband thinks getting me pregnant while in prison is a terrible idea and I get it. It just hurts so much.