Sending videos/pictures 😩

So recently my husband went out of town for work and he keeps on asking me to play with myself on video so he can see . But I just don’t feel comfortable doing that . We’ve been together 8 years now and I just can’t find myself have phone sex or sending videos . And it’s a me problem not a him problem . But I know it bothers him that I won’t do it . a part of me does want to please him but I feel stupid doing a video . What are some ways to spice up things being apart ? I’ve send a booty picture recently but that’s it . Help a girl out 😭