So I asked my best friend since we were little to be my Maid of Honor and she said yes. She recently got engaged to her boyfriend of a couple years and has started talking to me about wedding stuff. She told me she didn’t want a big wedding (she wants a court house wedding) and that her fiancé just wants it to be family. She did mention an engagement party but I’m not sure if they’re going through with it. I understand the want for a small wedding and a big honeymoon but what upsets me is that that it’ll just be his & her family and not any close friends. Now I know what you’re thinking, it’s not my place or decision to make and I shouldn’t be upset that I’m not invited. But what irks me is that her family hasn’t exactly acted like a family to her and mine basically took her in. So I don’t think it’s fair. I understand this isn’t about me and it’s not my day it’s theirs, which I completely respect. I just don’t understand how I made her my Maid of Honor but I can’t witness my best friend of several years, whom I care deeply about get married. It’s a pretty big deal. Please share your thoughts and opinions and any advice you have.