What is the biggest sacrifice you made by deciding to have kids?

Laila

I’m debating whether or not I want to have kids (my boyfriend wants to have biological kids in the future) and one of the biggest things I’m worried about is the sacrifices I’ll have to make. This might sound selfish to some, but I don’t want to always have to put someone else first. I’m not willing to cut back on my career, travel less, have less ‘me time,’ etc (at least as of right now, but it’s very possible that that could change!). So I’m curious, what is honestly the biggest sacrifice (or you can list a few!) that you had to make by becoming a mother/parent? Thanks in advance!