I have someone in my life who I'm very close with. We've never been intimate, but he's made it clear he wants to be, and that he has feelings for me. Problem is, he's admitted he's scared to do anything about it. So I told him that's fine, but I wouldn't be waiting around. We continue being friendly and one day I joked about seeing "the love of my life" at the grocery store. He was bothered by it, but still hasn't taken a step. I'm super confused.