Pregnancy hormones on overdrive

Currently 33 weeks pregnant and I’m so easily annoyed by everyone. My in laws especially. They are constantly giving my daughter anything she asks for. Some may think that’s awesome… but I mean literally anything she asks for or says she likes. I am very lucky to have the in laws I have, but I am overwhelmed and annoyed. I’m very nervous about them being able to visit in the hospital when our daughter is born. We had our first during Covid so it was just me and my husband. Honestly I’m nervous about anyone being able to visit and overstaying their welcome😩. Am I being ridiculous or are these valid thoughts?