Boyfriend watches porn but doesn't want sex

Zenithum
This has been going on for a year and we have been living together for nearly two years. My boyfriend tells me he loves me and that he'd be lost without me but I have a very high sex drive and he never wants sex, not even blowjobs or hand jobs. He has never made me cum from clitoral stimulation and only has vaginal sex with me once every two weeks, more or less. Sometimes when I'm not sober we have anal sex (I initiate it) but it's only really because I feel like he wouldn't want vaginal sex and anal is better than nothing... I find him masturbating pretty much every day and this only annoys me because he doesn't have sex with me. He says its normal and I agree it would be normal if he didn't have a woman who desperately wanted sex waiting? It makes me feel so ugly and disgusting. I exercise everyday and have for months. Now he's upset that he says I'm overreacting. I don't know what to do. Has anyone been in a similar situation?