Joining a church to find men

Ok so this isn't the only reason I would start going to church. I actually need to go because my life sucks ass at the moment too. Anyways I went to this church this summer near my house and it is a huge church so many members. I didn't like it that much. I like more intimate churches but I know if I want to meet someone I need to be around a lot of people. I'm thinking of making an effort to go to church at least 1-2 times a month. I feel like it's a good place to potentially find a husband the only issue is it seems like all the young attractive guys are already paired up. So idk how I feel about this whole church thing I also went to a young adults group and it was nice but again everyone knew everyone and some were dating it was just like.... ugh so idk I mean I'm running out of places to meet a good potential husband. I mean the bar sucks, online sucks, I have a few potentials but they are sucking a lot too lately.