Was this unprofessional for her to say? Would you have been offended by this?

Idk if I’m just being dramatic but would y’all be offended by this? I don’t wanna be a Karen but I feel like this was super unprofessional. So I get food stamps, I also have received TANF in the past but recently reapplied because I need the assistance. I’m a SAHM with a toddler and im currently 7 months pregnant, money is tight and I’ve been struggling lately. I had to renew my food stamps this month and got a call about that today and the lady also went over my TANF application and went ahead and did my “interview” for that or whatever. She was kinda rude the whole phone call and there were a few things she said that rubbed me the wrong way, but especially this. She asked me who my 2nd baby’s dad is and I told her it is the same as my first. (This pregnancy was not planned and happened completely by surprise if that matters, him and I are not currently together anymore so I’m a single mom) but anyways she asked if he lived with me I said no, told her we are not together etc etc that’s why I need the assistance and she just kinda scoffed. Then after she finished going over everything and explaining what would happen next, right before she hung up she said “and just a heads up, when they contact you more about getting your TANF benefits back you’re probably gonna be heavily scrutinized for being pregnant by him again so just be prepared for that and ready to plead your case when it happens. Just a fair warning.” It kinda embarrassed me and I didn’t even know what to say I just said okay have a good day and hung up. Was that unprofessional for her to say ? I feel like me accidentally getting pregnant by my first child’s dad again is honestly none of their business and she shouldn’t have even commented on it, the way she said it and her tone just felt very judgmental and harsh. it honestly makes me not even want to keep trying to get the benefits because she made it out like they’re just going to judge me based on my situation or something and give me a hard time.🥴 like yeah it probably shouldn’t have happened and I should have been more careful at the time but there’s nothing I can do about it now, i shouldn’t have to explain it or “plead my case” to anyone I didn’t plan on being a single mom and she just made me feel kinda stupid for needing the assistance.🥲