Please Help us pick a spelling.

Hey mamas! My husband and I have finally agreed and picked a name for our baby girl due this October. She is our second baby, our oldest, a boy named Parker. We are struggling picking a spelling of the name.

I like the traditional spelling; I had a different-ish name growing up and could never find my name on anything but I loved being unique. So I’m struggling on which would be better.

Lee is a family name on my side so I thought that would be cool to incorporate but if we use Lee then both of my kids would be named after my late father (my sons middle name was my dads first) and I want my husband to have his family represented as much as mine so her middle name is a family name on his side.