Im coming here to vent because I really dont know what else to do I really dont want to call anyone just yet because im really hoping this is a bad dream..my almost 2 yr relationship is ending all over a arguement last night. Every so often we have a disagreement & on nye I brought some 2016 glasses home for us to wear I really thought it would be a good pic for fb with him & my 2 girls but he didnt think so. We had words he gave in & took the pic but he didnt look happy at all. Then yday we didnt really talk much while he worked. Mainly because I got a late start on the day then around 3 we were texting so he came home last night prior to that I already let him know I wanted to make love my kids were gone for the night but he hung out in the living room to a little after midnight then came to bed & was going to sleep so im like wow really are you going to sleep & he was like yea im like wow really he claimed he wasnt feeling sexual so i said some things I didnt really mean like you can leave telling him he had 30 days to get out since im not the woman for him & go find another all of that because he said some things to me like im always complaing we argue to much I always have a problem mind u he has a cold & he was coughing loudly and after we had words I wasnt sleepy so I sat up for awhile then laid the opposite way so this morning I knew he was doing something before he left for work but I didnt know what because I was still in bed before he left he said see you later so after he was gone a while I text him to say what was our plan going forward after our words last night. He tells me he is leaving he is coming back to get his shoes & his tv & will pay his bills for the month of January...talking about dumb founded. I look in his closet & his clothes was really gone...im heart broken How can I get him back? I love him & dont want this to end yes we argue sometimes but what couple dont I just cant believe it this is a bad way to start 2016 😭😭