Cant gain weight?

Vanessa • Single mommy to baby Ava 05-31-16💕💜
Hi all, first off heres a backstory, in high school my body was exactly the way i wanted it , i weighed 140, solid muscle, that was almost 4 years ago, now ever since ive been out of high school, in college and working full time, i still go to the gym and focus on weight lifting as im not trying to lose or slim down, i can not for the life of me gain weight or keep my weight up, i dont even want to be bulky muscle-d , i just hate my body, my arms and legs are skinny and lanky and idk why i cant be like i was in high school, i even eat healthier now with more protein and veggies, anyone have suggestions? My clothes just fall off of me , ive lost two pant sizes and i dont know why, i dont workout near as much as i used to, im just confused here