I think that my boyfriend could be an incel or a sexist

My boyfriend talks a lot about being rejected in the past on dating sites and seems to hold a lot of resentment over women for rejecting him. We have been together for 3 years so I do not know why he talks about this stuff still. My boyfriend thinks that women are privileged and men are oppressed and thinks that women rejecting men for sexual relationships is an example of male oppression and female privilege. I do not like his views because I think that women should be able to choose their partners without being pressured into dating or sleeping with men that they do not like. He told me that he used to like a girl named Gabby when he was a teen but she did not want to date him. He says mean things about this girl and says that she’s too ugly for him now but she was pretty back then. My boyfriend says a lot of mean stuff about Only fans girls unprompted. He is always ranting about how they ruined society and how women have it easy because they can do sex work and men cant. My boyfriend is a mens rights fanatic and is constantly talking about how men are oppressed and have it so bad and that women have it so good. It really gets on my nerves how he invalidates women’s issues but thinks women saying no to men’s sexual advances is “oppression”. He has told me that red headed white men are oppressed and that girls don’t want to date them. He follows a lot of misogynistic influencers on social media and seems to agree with their views. I am very disappointed in him. I wish I could talk him out of this mindset.