Single Mommm

So I’m a single mom. I haven’t been with my kids dad for over 2 years or so. I have a BF of

A year now, he accepts me and my kiddo treats him well. But I’ve recently been struggling, I was renting my moms home and she kicked me out. Out of no where, she literally brought people to live there using my things so I had to move out quickly and throw away a lot of my things. And now I live in another state. Living rent free in a room of my uncles( BTW recently been rubbing it on my face. To be thankful he doesn’t charge me rent) Because I had no where else to go. My kids dad knows I’m struggling I have a PT Job and it’s overnights. My kiddo goes to a PT head start. But my current job I can only Afford to pay my car, daily expenses, groceries. And my kids dad offers to bring me in to live with him and he helps me pay my expenses while I get my self back on my feet. My bf disagrees he gets mad when I even mention it to him. But I feel like he doesn’t understand me. I’m always annoyed/stressed/ depressed. Because I know I could do better :( & I try to do this on my own. Be strong but it’s hard.. advice anyone . Should I just stay here and see how it goes. Or take my kids dads help and ignore bf, he says he’ll help me but I don’t see no help and he doesn’t have any obligation either so I don’t expect it. Thanks In advance