Okay so I am Christian and I feel weird about my bf going to strip clubs. I know what’s right and wrong and I don’t understand why women think it’s okay to let men disrespect them like that. Anyways, my bf keeps bringing up strip clubs. He acts like it’s a joke but it feels like he actually wants to go. I feel like if I would of let him go he would actually go but I can’t get a definite answer from him cause it all seems like a joke ahh. I mean u know when people say shit to u to get a rise out of u? That’s what I mean a joke. He asked me “would u rather me go alone or w u?” I said “I’d rather u tell me before so I can break up with u.” He got really teary eyed. That’s when I told him my moms story. My douche bag step dad took my moms car which she paid for brand new Cadillac to pick up strippers and my dad f’d a bunch of women. I told him honestly I don’t want a man like my dad or a man like my step dad. The reason I had to tell him this is because I have a baby on the way and I would hate my baby to have fathers like I did. He keeps bringing up how there are always strippers at bachelors parties too. It’s making me feel weird bc I’ve told him I want to marry him for God. He acts like I’m gonna go get male strippers at a bachelor party if we ever got married and has gotten angry about something that has never happened. He says weird things like “let’s take a whore home use her for the night and kick her to side of the road and tell her how dirty she is.” I’m questioning if this is a joke but this shit is getting real. Who the hell says that to someone they love???? Does he just not give a shit? The thing is I have morals and idk what the hell to do when a guy tells me things like this. When I communicate with him it feels like I’m not getting real answers. He ended up getting me flowers a couple hours later. I’m blind sited on if this is toxic or non toxic. Men are wack dude I don’t get this shit