Y'all I'm fed up

Me and my husband got two kids first I said no more kids at all that he convinced me for one more....okay great I agreed than he backed out...than it went on and off like a game to him so I expressed to him today I can't keep playing games ladies I'm in my mid 20s woman in my family go into menopause very early my mother went into it early 30s...I'm scared imma be the same. He tells me he now wants two more kids from me okay whatever now I mentioned to him I wanted to have a surprise birth when we have another and he said "omg all you talk about is kids" off putting made me upset because one..I don't think I talk about kids that much...two it was his idea to have more I'm not getting any younger and I sure won't play these games...it's playing with my emotions y'all I just wish he'd be straight up with me and not play these back and forth games like make babies or get snipped. And as far as income and housing goes we're completely fine there is no worries there and mental state wise this dude is chill AF...a little too calm 😒 I'm usually the crazy one lol. Idk ladies I'm just like we TTC or not?? Like crap or get off the pot saying