For the love of Pete! I am due in two months and there has not been anyone to start the planning process. I am fine without one since we have pretty much got everything ourselves anyway. But when people say they will and nothing happens... My mom said she would Co-host with my friend (I had to ask her to do it. She is not a motherly mother as her friends are a better way to to spend her time). My friend who volunteered had a MC a week after volunteering. We had breakfast a couple weeks ago and she said she is fine with doing it still. I told her not to feel obligated just because she said she would. She assured me she is fine now and in a better state. I just don't want the shower after a month out. That's cutting it a little close. I don't want to ask her again if she it's sure she is up for it as I don't want her to feel like I am nagging her about getting on the planning. How should I approach her to let her know I am willing to help or even do it?