Mix signals...
Sorry, this might seem long-winded. Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for nearly a year (been together 2 years) and he really wants a baby. He been trying to persuade me but we both still live with our parents and he lives half hour away from me, we rely on his mum to bring him to see me or buses. He's 18 and has an apprenticeship earning good money so would be able to provide but I don't work as I am 16 and in full time college therefore have a lot to do so don't have time to fully commit to a job. I would like a baby but I'm young and don't mind waiting. He respects my decision so is going to wait until we are both in a good situation e.g own place, financially stable. The thing that confuses me is that when we are alone he'll tell me how much he wants a child and how much he loves me and how he wants to be with me forever but if we are around family and they ask questions about kids he says "no I'm never having children" and says the complete opposite to what he tells me and it just confuses me because I would seriously consider having a child with him but when I want to talk seriously about it he doesn't talk to me or give me proper answers he's just sarcastic or makes jokes so makes me feel like he's not serious. Another aspect that doesn't help is that my cousin and his sister have both just had babies within 2 months of each other so we are around them quite a lot and he just says to me "I want one" and I try to explain that it's not that easy as there are other aspects to consider. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Add Comment
Let's Glow!
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.