Muslim ORAL SEX??

I recently got married to a Muslim man & he won’t perform oral sex on me he has before multiple (3) times.

He had made me perform on him by pushing my head down insisting that I kiss his penis

 But now, all of a sudden, it’s against his religion & he doesn’t want to kiss my vagina.  I want to know the reason why he doesn’t want to do it to me. I clean myself good my vagina is pretty . Like I don’t know what his problem is with it.

I told him if he can’t kiss my whole body don’t kiss the rest of my body, I’m not comfortable with my husband using religion as an excuse. He drinks alcohol, which isn’t allowed in his religion, so he chooses alcohol over my pleasure.

 I tried to talk to him about it, but he goes around the bush when I talk about it I don’t wanna sleep in the same bed as him anymore . I don’t even want to have sex with him anymore. He made me feel really bad about this . How would you react?

I’m way younger than him he kind of treats me like a child. problems just go away after a few hours with him he think’s everything back to normal. I still have this problem & I’m going to continue feeling like this

After I made a fuss to him he told me he would kiss me there but I don’t like that I told him I want him to kiss me because he loves me not because I fuss about it .

Thoughts please???

 I’m definitely not trying to force him to do it or make him go against his religion. But the religion is just a lot of nonsense because he done a lot of Haram when we wasn’t married, we was having sex. He is a older man about 12 years older than me I feel like he thinks he can easily manipulate me or something.