ANY “SNEAK PEEK KIT” MOMS?

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So we all know the HUGE influx of sneak peeks on the socials. I personally heard about it 3 years ago when my best friend was pregnant, and then I used it with my Son who is now 16 months. Was accurate of course, I was 7 weeks.
ANYWAY, to make a super long depressing story short, I found out I was pregnant last year and excitedly did another Sneak Peek box at 7.5 weeks, I found out I was having a girl and was over the moon. 3 weeks later I lost that little baby and had to get a D&C on Christmas eve because she didn’t come down naturally.
 Fast forward to now, I am currently 7 weeks pregnant again (Hopefully my rainbow baby💕) and my husband Wants to do it while I do not. I am so nervous to know because last time I was so happy and excited to have my little girl and when the ultrasound read Fetal Demise I felt like my world fell apart right then and there. I feel like my husband will never understand the fear of Miscarriage. HAVE YOU LADIES DONE A SNEAK PEEK?? I read that they’re actually banned in other countries due to these casualties and of course they’re allowed here in the USA, lol. 
What would you do? Or have done?
I know at the end of the day I should do what I feel in my heart is right but I just want to hear your

thoughts on this or if you’ve been through this and went ahead and tested anyway? Just checking that I’m not upsetting my husband just because I’m Overthinking!
 Thank you! ❤️

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I did it and got a boy result. I was really hoping for a girl. In a way, I’m glad I did it this soon so that it gives me plenty of time to accept my new son and bond with him before he is born.

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Im planning on doing one but probably not until im a bit further along. Also had a previous miscarriage so the anxiety is there. Don't feel pressured by your partner, talk to him and see if he can hold on a little while. Its hard as he will never understand the emotional turmoil you felt from the miscarriage because he just wouldn't have had the same connection. Make the right decision for you. <3

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I actually just ordered one last night. 
With our first child, we didn’t find out the gender until the 20w ultrasound which was fine I was still happy to know I was having a girl and was able to bond by calling her by her name the rest of the pregnancy.
Second child we chose to keep the gender a surprise until birth and husband and I agreed if we had another girl we would try again for a boy. Well, in not finding out the gender I had a lot of trouble bonding with baby beforehand and then at 37 weeks find out baby is breech and had to have a cesarean which was my biggest fear. When they pulled her out and announced“it’s a girl” my first thought was Great, I have to do this again.. I had bad postpartum depression and it took some months to bond. I feel like with the cesarean I didn’t get the same hormone flush as with my first vaginal delivery.
Now I’m pregnant with #3 and I want to know the gender as soon as possible so I can form a bond and hopefully avoid the postpartum depression even if I end up in a repeat cesarean although I’ve been told I’m a good candidate for a vbac. 
I’m fully expecting to have another girl and will be very surprised if we have a boy brewing in there. I’ll just be happy with a healthy baby.

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We’ve been debating on doing it but we’re also debating on just waiting. It’s our fourth and my husbands second and we’re really hoping for a boy and if it’s not I think I’d rather know when I see the baby 😂. 
I can imagine it would be hard to know the gender and form an attachment on a different level and losing it, I had an early miscarriage in June and if I knew it was a by I think it would have been very mentally devastating. I think you have to do what’s best for your mental health. And worse case you wait and do it down the road, see how you feel after the first ultrasound when you know everything is good.

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Do it again. Its his baby too and he has a right for his wants regarding yall baby to be respected. Youve done it before so you know you can simply enter his email so that you dont see the results

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I did it and my results came back inconclusive, I’m bummed but definitely do have the fear of finding out the gender and then losing it. I’m 7 weeks today, they’re sending me a retest kit.