For the past ten years I've kept in touch with a guy I met when I was a kid who lives in another state. Over the past few months, we've gone from talking once a week to every day from morning to night. Our friendship feels more like the beginning of a relationship so I asked him how he felt about it. THIS is the problem: he says he wants to date me, but he can't commit to an LDR right now. Meanwhile, he continues to try and get closer to me. I'm confused and annoyed. So are we something or not?