Which way would you go??

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So me & my partner have been trying for a baby now for 4 months... With no joy... We've just had what I felt a lovely Xmas , Stupidly I went on his phone and saw messages from a woman who I know clearly likes him , and one was on 27th December her asking him if he's with anyone He said 'no I'm single, why' She just replied oh I just wondered he claimed he'd broke up with me a few days previous Making it Xmas eve Well fu** me he gave me an eternity ring Xmas day , am I missing something ???? Why would he tell another woman he's single Since then I now question everything he says I had my ovaries and everything checked in November whilst TTC so u know there's nothing wrong with me I'm actually now wondering if he's had the snip and not told me Do I want a baby with this man who lies constantly or am I just thinking too much :-( Mum so torn because I really love him so much but just can't believe what he's doing to my heart xxx

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Oh no girl run while you can.

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Honey, someone who tells another women he's single when he's not is looking to cheat. I would leave now before you succeed in trying to have a baby and have to be tied to that man for the next 18 years at least.

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I'd confront him about it and leave. These are red flags all through this!! You can't continue to TTC w/ someone who has one foot in and one foot out.

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Leave him.

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Oh I already know exactly what I'll do 
I'll wait until the 16th if I come on fine easy F off , If I'm pregnant I'll take picture of test send it the woman 
Smash his precious phone 
Kick him out change the locks and take his belongings to the local homeless shelter 
He deserves nothing at all off me

For now I have to keep calm cool and level headed that much I do know unfortunately xx

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✋🏾 Hell No !! that is a big no no and I feel that YOU CAN GO THROUGHOUT YOUR MANS phone whenever you want and Aren't supposed to find ANYTHING! He is a cheater ( not physically but verbally ) and he's trying to play you. Maybe God was sending you a message because you don't want to be stuck with a cheater /liar while your pregnant and be stressed out. Leave now while the pain is bareable before u leave later and it hurts way more or if he leaves you first for another women because ..in his and her mind "He's single"

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Leave....but while you're on the internet, Google some really great ways to dump a cheater. *kidding* (maybe)

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Oh girl! Haul butt the other direction! If he is telling other girls that he's single, then he obviously isn't in love or isn't ready for all that commitment. You can back out of a relationship. You can't back out of a baby! You don't want that kind of influence on a child! I hope you find what's best for you and that your happy! ❤️

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The only reason he'd Have to lie about being Single is if he's open to the idea of acting the Way a single man does. Major alarm bells. The last thing u want to do is be pregnant and he's cheating or having a baby and he's cheating much more heartbreak and turmoil for you. Best thing to do leave and have a baby with the right person who wouldn't treat you this way.

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Men are asses!! 
I haven't said anything yet 
In waiting to collect evidence off his phone to use when he says it's all me in nasty I'm a bitch etc :-s xx

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