Okay so most of the time that me and my guy have sex, he's putting in the majority of the work... And it's just turned into more of a routine. I want to surprise him and kind of take control (he's a lot older than me so I feel like he's definitely had his share of experience) I need advice because any time that I've tried to be on top, it's just kind of boring and I'm not really sure what I'm doing. help 😩