Family doesn’t respect me

What do you do when your spouse and your children don’t respect you ? They don’t listen or care they do the opposite of everything or they just don’t do it because they simply don’t feel like it or care to listen so they ignore anything I say my spouse just talks over me anytime I ask a question or when I’m really fed up with his bullshit because I’m sick of dealing with another child he just doesn’t care an does whatever he wants to do regardless of how I feel about any of it. I’m so sick of being walked on and I’m so tired of not being respected