A friend in a sticky situation

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Rachael
A girl I work with has 3 kids with the same guy. They have never been married, but they've been on and off for 13 years. He doesn't trust her whatsoever and I see it continuously hurt their relationship& their children. It makes me hurt for her. 
​Her boyfriend told her that he couldn't be with her anymore because it wasn't ever going  to work out because he doesn't trust her. I watched her cry tonight and it made me very upset. 
​Do I tell her my opinions on the whole situation or keep it quiet? 
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Ly

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I think keep quiet. 13 years im sure she's heard it all before. I would keep quiet and be just be that shoulder to cry on. So sad :(

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Jamie • Oct 5, 2014
I would agree. Someone can't be done with a situation until they are ready! Be there for her, but save your breath!

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•K• • Oct 5, 2014
^Exactly what i was gonna say!

Ai

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Ask her if she wants to hear your suggestions...

St

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A true friend tells the truth and speaks there mind in the most respectful way possible. be 100 but also tell her no matter what your there for her even if she decided to take that ass back. Your job is to be 100 and be there for her but still let her learn and grow but make sure she understands that whst your telling her isnt to hurt her