Baby Mama drama
I need your opinions (good, bad and in between). I’m writing the details in third person.
So this guy met this girl one night after a recent break up. May have had a one night stand , but the girl quickly moved in. Things didn’t work out because the girl was aggressive, argumentative and the guy couldn’t deal anymore and asked her to move out. This girl give was already a mom to two other kids with different dads.
Couple of months after leaving, she contacted the guy to inform him that she was pregnant. He said he didn’t believe her and besides he doesn’t want to have nothing to do with her. She keeps contacting him to inform him that she’s pregnant with twins and he needs to take care of his children. Eventually, he agrees to do a paternity test. He is the father.
Then she says, she doesn’t want him to have no physical contact with the children but wants his mother and sisters to babysit the twins to help her out. The family agrees to help since they wouldn’t deny bloodline and kept the children for nights and weeks. The dad lives in the apartment next door so obviously he gets time to see and spend time with the kids.
The baby mama decided to marry someone for papers but decides also to send the kids to the Caribbean to live with her mom with no date of returning to the USA.
The guy gets in touch with the children’s grandmother where from time to time she asks for money to help support the children. The guy does willingly but when he ask when the children are coming back, the baby mama text him and say don’t go asking about the kids and mind his busy. Then she proceeded to cussing him and his family.
The kids turn 5, and she secretly brings them back to the USA to start school. Then recently stopped by unannounced by the guy’s sister’s house to show off the twins.
The guy moved states and is in a stable and loving relationship with someone else (who has children as well) and they both welcome a baby together.
The baby mama is angry because (1) the guy was in a long term relationship with a woman he met while she was pregnant and he practically raised the child with her. She is 18 yrs as of today and is considered a bonus cousin/ grandchild. The baby mama thinks it is ridiculous that he continues to support a child that is not his blood. (2) The guy moved on with another woman who has children and even had a child together…and is living happily as a blended family.
Now the baby mama is seeking to get child support for the twins, even though she continues to do parent alienation with the guy.
What are your thoughts ??
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