Confused 😕

My husband and I decided about 6 months ago that we were not going to try for our second child. So after this conversation I went to the Drs office and got my birth control.

Well this month for some odd reason AF has decided to not show up for the last 3 days (after starting the BC, AF was on point with Glow). I tested this morning and got a negative test so I waited a few hours and took another one and it was negative also.

Needless to say I am freaking out. I'm anxiously looking for AF every time I go to the rest room because my husband and I agreed that we were not going to try for baby #2 anymore.

Also, just to note, I had tenderness in my sides. Not at all like the cramps I have before AF. These felt more like a bruise, really tender to the touch.

So really my question is, Has anyone else here having this problem or anything similar? Please give me your feed back.