was i taken advantage of or just being stupid and naive ?

So, some backstory before I get into the situation. One of my coworkers and I recently became friends this year (she and I are both bisexual btw). She invited me to her graduation party, and i went and we all ended up getting drunk. At one point I had asked her where her restroom was, and she led me too it. She went inside with me, and we started talking about our first impressions of each other. I told her i thought she was so pretty, but in a platonic way. And she proceeded to tell me that she thought i was so fine and cute when she first met me. And then she said that we should kiss. She has a boyfriend of two years btw. Anyway I gave her a super quick peck of the lips, and continued on with whatever we were talking about, then she cut me off and asked for another kiss. Her boyfriend started knocking on the door tho asking if we were okay. She stopped making advances after that

Fast forward to a month later, and we’re sitting in my car talking. She starts telling me about how one day her and a close friend got super wasted and ended up having sex. She said she really enjoyed it and found out she was into girls. She then proceeds to asks me if i would ever kiss her again. I start awkwardly laughing and she kinda gets a lil offended and says “what ? it’s a valid question” and then she keeps pressing on about if i would kiss her. I have no attraction to her whatsoever. I only see her in a platonic way. But anyway I just want the conversation to be over with, and I’m used to being people pleaser, always putting others feelings over mine, so to make her comfortable I telll her “maybe but only if i was drunk again” and she replies “okay okay good to know” and then we switch topics. I kept telling myself that her asking me that was whatever and nothing to worry about because I didnt want to have any uncomfortable tension between us.

Fast forward again to a few weeks later, we go out clubbing one night just the two of us. I keep thinking to myself that if she makes a move at me I will shut her down this time, and tell her we should just be friends especially since she has a boyfriend and i have no interest being a homewrecker. That night, I ended up getting super wasted and needing her to help me walk out of the club and into our ride. She was not even near as drunk as i was. We make it back to her place, and i’m hunched over her toilet trying to throw up bc of how much i drank. Then out of nowhere, she grabs my face and starts making out with me. I give into it because I’m just too drunk to care at this point. The next thing I know I’m fingering her, and then we go to her bed to continue things. I don’t remember too much of what we did, but I know that I was more of the dominant one between us, which makes me think that I wasn’t really taken advantage since I took over after she initiated it all. I also remember that when she was doing stuff to me I genuinely couldn’t feel anything. I think it’s because I was just so drunk. Anyway, after all that is done we end up passing out, and i wake up the next morning with a massive hangover. I was trying so hard not to throw up, and i had a huge headache. I was also basically mute the whole day since i felt so bad. On the other hand, she was perfectly fine. She had so much energy that you couldn’t even tell she drank the night before. I felt so confused about the whole situation because I had no interest in doing anything with her, yet I ended up doing all that with her.

We ended up talking about the sex, and she told me not to tell anyone since she doesn’t want her boyfriend finding out. Again, me being a dump people pleaser I complied with it for the mean time. I ended up telling my best friend about it and my brother, and they both said she had full on taken advantage of me. I’m having a hard time coming to terms with it though. Mainly because I was into it while it was happening, but once I was sober I was confused and disgusted by it. I’m still her friend somewhat, but I don’t hangout with her anymore or text her as much. She was supposed to sleepover at my place one day, but it ended up not happening which i’m so thankful for because i just kept worrying about her making a move on me again. I feel uncomfortable around her, but i kept brushing it off and pretending like nothing happened. Anyway, was i taken advantage of or was i just being stupid and made a mistake ?