Husband being irritating

Idk what to do anymore and I’m tired of fighting about it. My husband has been in a really pissy mood and he always makes it seem like it’s my fault. Like this morning: Our dog had a vet appointment and I told him what it was at. Instead of setting an alarm and being responsible, he waited for him to wake him up with breakfast and hurry him up so that he can be on time. As we’re driving to the vet, he almost got off at the wrong exit and when I corrected him, he got upset I didn’t tell him sooner. Then we arrive to the vet and at check in they tell me they’re running behind and they’ll call us when they’re ready while we wait in our vehicle. My husband got upset yet again and told me why didn’t I call ahead cause now we’re just gonna be waiting around….

How was I supposed to know that they were behind? They’re never behind and not once have we ever called so why would I? I’m just so upset about it all 😒😒