Any help is greatly appreciated.

Hello eve community, I need help. I need support. I need to know I’m not crazy. I have been with my man for about 3 years and we have been married under a year, and since we have been living together I have been doing my best to be patient with this man. However whenever I tell him to pick up on his half of chores or to help keep the house clean. Or I try to talk to him about certain things he does that makes me upset it feels as if it goes through one ear and out the other. It feels like he doesn’t care to listen to me. This type of thing has been going on for a while now. I’m really not sure if I should stay married to this person or just pick myself up and leave. I don’t have any friends or family I can talk to this stuff about so any you ladies have for me I would greatly appreciate.