Frustrated- 10 Year Anniversary is Near

My husband and I are coming up on 10 years of marriage next year. Every time I have tried to sit down to plan anything he seems not interested. Let it be known he is not much of a planner, however we had both agreed at some point this year that we wanted to have a travel experience versus wasting our money on a renewal celebration with other people. We had a big wedding that was good enough. Trying to plan way ahead of time due to budget and costs for everything is high. We are supposed to be doing a small family trip for holidays no plans for that either. I’m exhausted I’m having to keep up with everything or plan everything including my birthdays. Idk what else to do. Any suggestions? I text him about this morning and his response was, “stop talking about that.”