So defeated

All my bf/bd has to do around the house is cook. I clean, do laundry, take care of our son, change the diapers, take the trash out. Everything. All he has to do is cook. And it seems like for the last month he’s been tryna throw it in my face that it’s a “woman’s/moms job to cook”. The only reason I don’t is because of him. He always hates the food I cook no matter how much I try. So I gave up. I just feel so un appreciated. When I brought it up this morning he tried to say I was overthinking it and that “when he says that he just joking” but I’m not stupid. He’s throwing it in my face. I want to leave but feel like I’m letting my son down.