Women who drop everything for a relationship, why?

Question

I dont want this to sound condescending because it’s not, I’m just genuinely curious. My closest friend is one to drop everything the second she starts seeing somebody, and it’s like I don’t exist. She started seeing someone and I haven’t talked to her since, so I’m curious if anyone out here does this and why? I personally am the opposite, and I have my own set of issues (so again, not judging) I’m just curious as to why you’d drop everything and everyone for someone you barely know?

Answer

Every time I have dropped friends for a relationship it was because the guy was controlling. Maybe that’s not that case for everyone but in my healthy relationships me and my boyfriend have grown to have the same friends, his friends are my friends and vice versa

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This usually happens because they’re excited about their new relationship and going through the honeymoon phase where they just want to spend all their time with their partner. It’s natural and common. I say just be patient with your friend, continue to ask her if she wants to hang out, maybe even tell her your feelings. But don’t take it personal, it has nothing to do with you. She’ll eventually come around.

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From my point of view when this has happebed to me i feel like i would cut friends out over a guy because a work, husband, friend, children balance is a hard thing to juggle on an even playing field. Plus like right now my fiance only has.one day a week off with me and id honestly rather spend that time with him so we can decompress from the week together and keep building our life together in a positive way. Dont get me wrong i will still make plans with my friends here and there on our day off so he can be with the kids and i can have a day out, but i dont do it often for that reason. My friends and i know what.to expect out of one another. Im still always there for them when they need me and i still will text them regularly to check in on them.

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I did this once when I was 16 and it was because the guy was controlling and abusive. I wouldn’t do that again though. It could also be that she’s just extremely excited over a new relationship. Not okay to ignore your friends either.

Women who drop everything for a relationship, why?

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