Schedule for 3/4 month old

Al

Hey everyone, hard to believe our little beans are already 3/4 months old! My little guy came 4 weeks early and is technically a June(29) baby but as far as milestones go he seems to be right in the middle of his current age and adjusted age. I’m wondering what everyone’s schedules are looking like, we are really trying to get him on something more consistent so we can make sure we have a consistent bedtime and such. He sleeps through the night most nights but I can definitely tell when we have those crazy more hectic days it throws him off. I’ve also got a 4 year old so we have to be a little flexible around her activities as well.

My husband currently stays home with him during the day so really this is for him. He’s struggling to move out of the newborn stage to having a more active baby. He hasn’t quite figured out how to really engage with baby. I was the one who stayed home when our daughter was born so he didn’t really have to worry about it then. Things were also a lot easier with just one kiddo to worry about 😅… He tends to default to a nap anytime the baby is fussy and we’re getting to a point where he may be sleeping too much during the day. We just need to balance play time and nap time and I know having a schedule laid out would help my husband, especially during times where he has both kiddos. I just don’t really know where to start 🥴🥴

Picture of my little bean ❤️