My brother wants an apology for my husband calling him trash

I don't really like being around my brother. He starts weird conversation and they lead to debates and it goes down hill. Me and my husband were 18 when we got married and have been together since the 7th grade. My husband and my brother were talking about that old show to catch a predator. My brother was saying how he thinks the show is unethical because not all the men on there are pedophiles. My husband was saying if you're going to meet up with a child to have sex you're a pedophile. My brothers point was that some men aren't pedos. They're just lonely. And that the situations they set them up for are completely unrealistic. He was saying stupid stuff like how realistically no woman underage or not is gonna go on a site looking for sex unless she's like 300lbs. So the whole you met the perfect girl who wants to have sex with you only issue is she's underage is unrealistic. Most men just simply think they've hit the check pit. My husband said that if you know they're underage and still think you hit the jackpot you're a predator regardless and need to die and that adult woman definitely go on dating sites just to find someone to have sex with and that some of his podcasts he listens to woman talk about doing it. My brother was like "You got married 18. Trust me and ask any other man. The chances of a women unless she's like 300lbs going online for sex are 0." My husband says "Or maybe it's not that women don't do it. Maybe they just don't want to do it with you. Maybe your personality is trash." My brother got angry and put a damn whole in my aunts wall. He's been texting me about how horrible my husband was to call him trash. My mom agrees and thinks my husband should apologize. My step dad however says that my brothers argument was trash so he shouldn't be surprised he got called trash. My husband didn't even call him trash. He was just saying that maybe his personality is why no girl wants to hook up with him. My brother is all upset and maybe I'm insensitive but I told him to get the fuck over it. He was having a weird conversation. Had a stupid opinion about it and is butt hurt. Am I being too mean😅