am I the bad guy? TW: emotional abuse

if a parent is emotionally abusive by manipulating you to attend their family event when you are physically ill, and tell you that they wish you would go to hell, that you are being a child or kill yourself to get you to do what they wanted, do I become the bad guy if I yell back and say it's wrong, can't deal with it anymore and tell them to stop. my neighbors are giving me dirty looks since I yelled back at my parent for the first time and my neighbors overheard it. they didn't know that my parent was emotionally abusing me and I was yelling to tell them to stop. I feel like my parents framed me to my neighbors so now they won't even look or talk to me. am I really the bad guy if I fight for what is right?