Is you’re boyfriend not affectionate with you ?

Lesly

What do y’all think on you’re boyfriend partner spouse etc not being affectionate in a 3+ year relationship he used to be but no long is but says he loves you. Am I wrong for stating arguments with him over that “I’m just not affectionate” “people change” “it’s all in you’re head” like what can I do to make him understand how I feel ?