Alcoholic?

My husband and I have been married for a year and together for 7. We have two wonderful babies and I do love him, we’ve been through allot of things. He works and he provides and I work as well to make my car payment. The issue is he drinks everyday, I brought it up that this bothers me & it turned into a huge argument. He doesn’t see it as an issue, but I do. He’s a recovering drug addict, and I think that’s why it also bothers me because I know he can get addicted to things easily. He said he’s not going to quit drinking and that he provides & is a grown man so he’s going to do what he wants. I don’t want my sons to grow up thinking it’s okay to have to drink everyday. I’m becoming unhappy in my marriage but my 3 year old loves his dad so much & that’s why I stay. My other baby is 4 months. I just don’t know how to talk to him without him becoming angry about it.